Frustrated...

[Kallisto Notara]

Note: I'm ten years older than my little sister.

Sometimes it drives me crazy at how pretty my sister is. I can't take her around my guy friends! Every time I have to hear about how pretty she is, how cute she is, how they want to date her or marry her when she turns 18. Then you have the fact that she has to flirt with everyone of them. Now a guy I really like and have a lot in common with is flirting with her and she's flirting back! I'm so sick of competing with her, because I can't and I've had to hear about it my whole life.

When she was five I had to seriously listen to how she was going to be a heartbreaker in high school and even then how when she turned eighteen my guy friends planned on dating her.
I love my sister dearly, but sometimes I hate having to deal with what comes from her being my sister. I don't even know what to do about it. It's like she doesn't even care that this hurts me either. Last night she was tickling the guy I like in front of me and letting him kiss her on the cheek. Then she lied to me and told me he kissed her on the lips which he didn't! I could just wring her neck somedays.

Help!

[Artemis]

Drip acid on her face while she sleeps. . .

[Kallisto Notara]

Lol. Good for a laugh as a thought, but I love my sister too much to do that.

[Artemis]

I wasn't being serious. x3 . . . Or was I? Well, I can't really help you because I was called the high school heartbreaker until I turned out to be a devilish, wanton, lovely little psycho.

[Kallisto Notara]

Lol. Yeah that sounds like my sister.

[Persephone]

I agree with the acid. Or you don't have to out do your sister. Did you ever think that perhap the reason why she's competing with you is because she's envious that her big sister is surrounded by guys she's not old enough to be with yet? I'm an only child. @__@;

I have no fing clue. x3

[Kallisto Notara]

Lol. I don't know it's different though. She has their attention because they think she's attractive. I have their attention because I'm the friend that likes to do all the stuff they do. I highly doubt she's jealous of me. I don't exactly date a lot and that's not all by choice either.

[Demeter;;]

I can't help you on this one much, because I'm the youngest sister. o.o If I was her though, getting all the attention could be bad. Maybe she wishes she was older, because I do sometimes. I think she probobly feels like it's not real feelings either, like they think she's cute, but she can't really be with them or flirt like you might be able to with them. If it continues, then whenever you get the chance, sit her down to have a talk.

Don't yell, don't get angry, don't act depressed or jealous, just say that the situation upsets you, and you want to know what goes through her mind when she does stuff like that. Tell her you think it's rude, and you want to understand, and in the long run it'll make you guys closer if you talk to her in the right way.